SOS, I am addicted to gambling - what to do?

[ValDes]

Yes I did sweet cocopop and also re-read it again and again but will I learn from it? well that's a different story I think like ValDes mentioned and we all know self discipline is learning from your own mistakes.

I do hope I can learn to control my gambling habits before they ever get out of control more than they already are at times but yes its hard knowing when to fold them .

 

Well, even the fact that you realize all mentioned above, is a good sign that you would most probably be capable to put your gambling habits under control, when and if such moment occur.

[vhong2]

Why dont you isolate yourself in a place far from everything. Far from all the worldly technologies. Go somewhere rural.

[ValDes]

Why dont you isolate yourself in a place far from everything. Far from all the worldly technologies. Go somewhere rural.

 

Ahmm, don't get the idea?

[yapro]

Ahmm, don't get the idea?

same here...

vhong 2 can you try to explain this? Or i just need my morning cofee...

[Johnnygotthebone]

Try PROVEN SYSTEM.... Works for me

[ValDes]

Try PROVEN SYSTEM.... Works for me

 

Please, do not 'spam' here with your system...things, please. 

[Johnnygotthebone]

No spam Val.

 

I myself was addicted and helped myself.

 

If this person is sick like I used to be it may be beneficial to take drastic action in protecting himself.

 

Believe it or not Val, I have received dozens of emails from people just like me. Some have reached the end. They can't take their illness anymore. It is a serious problem they can't control.

 

My PROVEN SYSTEM title may be misleading Val. It is not a system to win. Not at all.

 

It is a way to control yourself and have fun instead of making gambling the only priority.

 

At least 8 people who have emailed me, and spoken to me via Skype have thanked me. I am not kidding.

 

This original poster has serious probs. serious. He won't just quit. We all know this

 

He needs to understand that he can learn to control his illness. It is possible. I am living proof.

 

I can go open a playtech casino in the next 5 minutes if i please and deposit 10k on the spot. Or go play blackjack somewhere online. Prior to me understanding my illness, that was normal.

 

I don't even consider doing this anymore.

 

I have officially convinced my brain to believe PROVEN SYSTEM is real. I have convinced myself that I can be in control and go days without gambling. I have taken every measure to make it easier.

 

Being serious Val, inused to be very sick with gambling. U have no idea my friend the things I have done. I hated myself. The bad memories helped make me stronger now. Imam in invincable. I will never go back to that level of illness. Ever.

 

 

Completely addicted gamblers will always have it inside. Always. It's all they want. Day and night. An illness like drugs and alcohol. Therapy with a professional is the last resort. But even that is hard for people.

 

 

Now please remember who I am....

 

For the last God knows how many years, I have gambled and thought of gambling 24/7. Yes a break after kids were born but always had it in me. Always.

 

Now I discover these online mobile slots. Hit a biggie jackpot then lose plenty right back and then another 50k in may at 32 red! Just not normal.

 

A couple of months later I analysed the situation and came up with a plan. Beside making a killing in July and August, I was in total control. Except for reverse withdrawals. Total. I was in charge of my destiny.

 

The OP needs to take control. He needs to understand why he gambled. He needs to set limits. He needs to build a border between happiness and misery. He needs to teach his brain that this online gaming can actually be very amusing.

 

You may laugh at my you know what but it is working for me and plenty of others.

 

 

Just my humble opinion Val

[ValDes]

Dear Johnny,

 

1. It is after I read your last post when finally got what's behind this stupid name 'proven system'! Now being in aware of your great fight to take back control over your gambling, you could rely on my full support. I'm sure most people here will give you a helping hand as well. 

 

2. Have no idea what 'original poster' you are referring to, but if you mean the one, who started this thread then you should know it was me.

 

3. I doubt you ever read the very first post of this thread... I strongly encourage you to do it and afterwards you could try and see how many people have read it... And then you could try to imagine how much emails and PMs I have received.

[Johnnygotthebone]

I see. I tried going backyards on the iphone but it doesn't go fast enough. I assumed it was a dude just like me.

 

I will log in from PC and check out the whole thread.

 

PROVEN SYSTEM is not a stupid name Val. It may be misleading to a newbie but no stupid.

[ValDes]

I see. I tried going backyards on the iphone but it doesn't go fast enough. I assumed it was a dude just like me.

 

I will log in from PC and check out the whole thread.

 

PROVEN SYSTEM is not a stupid name Val. It may be misleading to a newbie but no stupid.

 

Then I'm a newbie.

[Johnnygotthebone]

Lmao!

[Himself]

Hi Im new here and looking around, and I see this quote about some system in the Gambling Section.  I certainly don't want to make enemies but it would seem Gambling Problems are a very serious thing, and for someone to come talk about some system seems very unprofessional and rude. 

[Johnnygotthebone]

Lol. U r too funny Suze?

[Awena]

Hi Im new here and looking around, and I see this quote about some system in the Gambling Section.  I certainly don't want to make enemies but it would seem Gambling Problems are a very serious thing, and for someone to come talk about some system seems very unprofessional and rude. 

[LadyClover]

Travels and my girl helps me to lose an addiction. Now I rarely play in the casino or other games..

[ValDes]

Travels and my girl helps me to lose an addiction. Now I rarely play in the casino or other games..

 

Seems like you were having some gambling related problems then? Was that the case? I'm really happy to hear that you found something to help you cope with problem gambling though.

 

Welcome to the AskGamblers by the way.

[luckyloser]

Ive been playing way to much latley. Been losing all over the place. And now finally made a cashout yesterday but the casino leave the money pending and send me this mail:

 

"We wanted to give you a bonus to help your winning streak continue - 20 free spins for Starburst on the house and a nice deposit bonus specially for you.  

Please contact support on live chat to make use of this offer - we are always happy to help you win big Don't forget, there is a 10,000,000 EUR jackpot waiting for you on the game Mega Moolah, with your luck you might be the one to take it.  

We look forward to hearing back from you soon. We wanted to give you a bonus to help your winning streak continue - 20 free spins for Starburst on the house and a nice deposit bonus specially for you.  

Please contact support on live chat to make use of this offer - we are always happy to help you win big Don't forget, there is a 10,000,000 EUR jackpot waiting for you on the game Mega Moolah, with your luck you might be the one to take it.  

We look forward to hearing back from you soon. "

 

So they are basicly tryna tempt me to revers the cashout. Im so frustrated at the moment.... I have closed almost all accounts i have and the ones left are set limits. But still its hard to quitt all together. Really hope i get this cashout hassle free and then im going to atleast try to quitt.

[ValDes]

Ive been playing way to much latley. Been losing all over the place. And now finally made a cashout yesterday but the casino leave the money pending and send me this mail:

 

"We wanted to give you a bonus to help your winning streak continue - 20 free spins for Starburst on the house and a nice deposit bonus specially for you.  

Please contact support on live chat to make use of this offer - we are always happy to help you win big Don't forget, there is a 10,000,000 EUR jackpot waiting for you on the game Mega Moolah, with your luck you might be the one to take it.  

 

We look forward to hearing back from you soon. We wanted to give you a bonus to help your winning streak continue - 20 free spins for Starburst on the house and a nice deposit bonus specially for you.  

 

Please contact support on live chat to make use of this offer - we are always happy to help you win big Don't forget, there is a 10,000,000 EUR jackpot waiting for you on the game Mega Moolah, with your luck you might be the one to take it.  

 

We look forward to hearing back from you soon. "

 

So they are basicly tryna tempt me to revers the cashout. Im so frustrated at the moment.... I have closed almost all accounts i have and the ones left are set limits. But still its hard to quitt all together. Really hope i get this cashout hassle free and then im going to atleast try to quitt.

 

You must stay strong and resist the urge to come back, reverse and play! Consider it as the first of the many steps you are supposed to make in order to put your gambling under a total control! 

 

You can do that, luckyloser! Don't ever forget that.. .YOU CAN DO IT! 

[sorenjo]

Wauw, what a powerful read. Thanks a lot ValDes for sharing, and everyone else who have contributed

Edited October 8, 2015 by sorenjo

[AlyzDGamer]

It is a reality that an online casino is created strictly for diversion purposes only. However, problems occur because some use it as a form of escape. Whenever they win, they see it as a way to appease their inner needs, thus addiction happens.

 

How to overcome gambling addiction? 

 

Admission

Communicate the problem

Ignore stressors

Give financial control to somebody else

Indulge in a different habit

Read self-help books

Get involved in the community

Make a journal of your accomplishments

[Zioliern]

First I saw a lot of link, i decided it is a spammy letter with a terrible representation:D

But it is a really useful post, thanks a lot!) 

I`m very pleased that there are people who help addicted people! It`s a matte of a great important to save their lives, families and work!

[jwilliams]

Great article! Now I'm totally sure, that I'm not addicted)

[ValDes]

Great article! Now I'm totally sure, that I'm not addicted)

 

 

First I saw a lot of link, i decided it is a spammy letter with a terrible representation:D

But it is a really useful post, thanks a lot!) 

I`m very pleased that there are people who help addicted people! It`s a matte of a great important to save their lives, families and work!

 

Thanks for estimating our efforts so high. Hope you will never ever have to deal with such kind of addiction. 

[Zioliern]

Hi bossman

 

This is very striking story! Appreciated is your decision to share it with us!

 

I am more than curious to find out what made you do that, especially considering you're "on the other side", working for casino, not for the players?? 

Sorry to ask, but it's just a bit strange for me to read this from the boss of the casino, don't mind  Sounds like a warning and it certainly don't go in your favor!

 

 

PS. Here's my contribution for this thread! Here's the web address of the organisation helping gambling problems (UK) - http://www.cnwl.nhs.uk/cnwl-national-problem-gambling-clinic/

I don`t see anything strange as it means that he is prejudiced in his posts about casino games.. I think

[James15]

Casinos are most commonly built near or combined with hotels, restaurants, retail shopping, cruise ships or other tourist attractions. There is much debate over whether or not the social and economic consequences of casino gambling outweigh the initial revenue that may be generated